Every human being on this planet has a desire to bring a change. A change in oneself because of the past mistakes, A change in one’s relationships, etc. But how do you bring about a change? Confused huh? So, let’s get out of this confusion by finding a solution!
First of all, it is a psychological fact that we, human beings prefer to blame someone else for the situation in which we are rather than accepting it. If we made a mistake in the past we blame our destiny or people for it. If our relationships aren’t working out, we again blame the other person.
Now psychological fact number 2, WE CAN NEVER BRING ABOUT A CHANGE IF WE BLAME SOMEONE ELSE OTHER THAN OURSELVES.
Yes, believe it or not, it’s true. Until and Unless you do not accept your mistake, you cannot learn from it. And if you don’t learn from your mistakes then you are prone to make the same mistakes again and again. So, accept it that you were responsible for the mistake and you will bring about a change in yourself.
Acceptance is change goes for the relationships too, but with a slight variation. Making a mistake in a relationship is a totally different part but to begin a new relationship, accepting people around you is what matters. If you deny people because of their physical flaws or any other reason, you can never make any of your relationships successful.
Accept. It was your mistake. Accept the person standing in front of you the way he is. Accept because that is what matters. Start accepting mistakes, start accepting people because Acceptance Is Change.